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July 21st, 2008

A grudge is lingering anger against an event, person or thing that happened in the past. It's when the grudge lasts beyond its time that it becomes obscure and dangerous.

We've all had instances where we've felt hurt, betrayed or wronged by a close friend, foe or family member; it's a regular occurrence in human nature. Throughout nature we've seen massive betrayals occur, mutinies and even mindless raids on lands that still foster resentment towards the resident citizens.

But after several hundred years, would one not think that fostering grudges for this long is a waste of time, effort and emotional energy?

Over the weekend Paul McCartney descended on Québec City for its 400th anniversary since its original inception in 1608 by Samuel de Champlain. This remarkable figure is honoured amongst the world, with this band, The Beatles, surpassing every known record to mankind in music.

Though he's highly revered, some people would have rathered he stayed home in Britain, feeling threatened by his presence at the festivals on la capitale nationelle.

Sovereignists are claiming they feel "uncomfortable" at the "disturbing memories" it brings of Britains "conquest" of New France...over 200 years ago.

Now this is just silly. A region in a relatively "civilized" (which can be questionable at times) environment where petty regional wars are shunned upon, these antics does not lend itself well to the overall image of Québec nor the Québecois in general. As McCartney himself put it, "..the pipe of peace and, you know, put away the hatchet..."

An event that happened 248 years ago should eventually have those negative feelings snuffed and put away for the sake of a continued partnership that has tried so hard to foster both cultures into its own.

Only when the clouds of dissension and ancestral grudges have dissipated can we begin to function anew, for this whole incident is not doing anything to help Québec in the least.

The parting population to other provinces, companies uplifting their headquarters to Ontario or out west in Alberta and the general internal dissidence against anglophones are too real of a realization that perhaps their grudge has gone too far. Yet it seems as though no one wants to try and break this nasty and debilitating sentiment.

Compared to Montréal, who once held the title of Most-Populous City in Canada, is now undergoing some fundamental changes as people move out and move in to Toronto. The amount of construction in Toronto is nothing short of remarkable; once-barren areas are now thriving with tall buildings; the skyline is seeing a revival after years of stagnant growth.

All because of this grudge that lingers within the Québecois culture against an event that happened nearly 250 years in the past.

Perhaps when they realize that holding grudges is only hurting them more than it is helping, or if they decided to share their culture with the rest of Canada then perhaps they wouldn't feel so reclusive, mocked or threatened.

 

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